Saturday, September 25, 2010

I am in Love or Attraction?




   In teenage time many boys are girls excited due to these matter, and it’s called as normal in the beautiful God’s creation, scientists also told that some hormones also responsible due to attraction between a boy and girl at the mean time. But the main thing is to find out here is that you are in true love with someone or that’s a just attraction between you and your partner? If you love someone to fulfill your physical attraction then no doubt it’s just attraction. Many couples marrying after some years of love story but they can’t live together due to their misunderstandings and the final result is divorce, so you should yourself carefully think that you are in true love with someone or you are in attraction.


In true love you should consider about the affections, feelings, expressions, honesty, trust & respect, friendship, commitment & many more, if you are really thinking that you love someone a lot then always consider about the feelings of yours towards your partner. Your emotional attachment towards your lover is most important such as you are feeling that you can’t live without your partner a day or a moment, you are thinking that your partner is perfect for you & you both are made for each other that’s love. Your heart must show you the green signal towards your lovers love means if you are confused that you are in true love or not then you think yourself deeply that you are going on right way or you are just in attraction & want to use your partner just for time pass & fun, that’s really wrong…


   Attraction never can take place the position of TRUE LOVE. True Love is True Love...That’s it; no attraction can reduce the importance of the word True Love. 

   Now many boys are falling & getting out of love quickly their emotions & feelings suddenly changes from one girl to another, you think about it yourself how it’s possible that your feelings are changing from one to another after looking and meeting a more beautiful girl than the ex-lover. It’s happening due to attraction between at the time of teenage time. I don’t want to explain this by using scientific terms but many hormones also responsible for the attraction.

   So before considering that you are in true love think about the emotional attachment, romantic feelings, your caring towards her, emotional intimacy, how much you respect her, how much you trust her, how much you are honest & serious for your love, faithfulness & many other factors are responsible for true love you can’t see these points in attraction. Share your views towards Love & attraction.
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12 comments:

Ragini said...

A boy is proposing me regularly from last 1 year, he is saying that he is in true love with me, he cut his nerve also. I don't know what I should do? Its true Love or attraction ? Please help me


Sweety on October 6, 2010 at 6:24 PM said...

Ragini first tell me that do you love that boy or not ? You like him or not ? 1st try to find that is he really loves you ? notice his attitude,anxiety etc,then try to know his family background, his character etc etc, then think yourself that you should reject or accept him. If you found that he is in love with you truly honestly then only accept him. If you want anymore advice then comment here frankly.

Thanks


Ragini said...

Yes you are right. 1st I should start knowing about him, then only I should take any decision. And ya I like him, but its the first stage so I am not so serious. Anyways Thank you so much for your advice and reply.


Amit Vikram said...

Teenage love is nothing, but a better name fo intial sexual desires of the youth. It's just fantasies of se that drives a teenager into love relationship.


JYOTIRMAYA CHANDRA on October 31, 2010 at 3:40 PM said...

Thanks Amit Vikram for your valuable comment.


mathan on April 28, 2011 at 2:10 AM said...

love love love hmmmmm ...


JYOTIRMAYA CHANDRA on May 13, 2011 at 10:40 PM said...

Thank You Mathan for your comment.


Ashu said...

How to know If Am I in love or attraction ?


Anonymous said...

TEENAGE LOVE IS THE PUREST FORM OF LOVE IF ITS REALLY LOVE ...u just hav to identify weder u r in love or are just attracted ....its not the way of fullfilling your earlier sexual desires ...i dnt think so...if u r in love ...first u ll trust each other ...knoe each other ..understand each othe...be committeed 2wards each other ..and when u r committed seriously ..watz wrong in coming close to each other till a limit ...


suchmaschinen optimierung on June 29, 2011 at 11:04 AM said...

nice topic is love.thanks for sharing.


Rashmi on November 21, 2011 at 5:58 AM said...

What should I do when love became attraction? At first I was thinking that Its just an attraction, then later on I found that its not just attraction it converted into love.


Ashis Panda on December 15, 2011 at 5:49 PM said...

@Sweety
love love darling 143


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